Have you ever thought of just how important it is to pray earnestly and specifically for your husband? Though the prayers “God bless my husband, keep him safe and give him a good day” are of value, there are much deeper needs in his life (and in your marriage!) that need devoted prayer. Take a look at these prayers taken directly from scripture and see what God will do with your marriage!
— Florrie Martell
Florrie and her husband, Eddie are the directors for our marriage ministry, Threefold Cord
6 Scriptural Prayers for Husbands
by Wendy Blight
“So will My word be which goes forth from My mouth; It will not return to Me empty, Without accomplishing what I desire, And without succeeding in the matter for which I sent it.” Isaiah 55:11(NASB)
My husband Monty and I are different. So very different. Early in our marriage, I loved those differences. But as the years have passed, they’ve been known to cause frustration … arguments, slammed doors, and words that can’t be taken back.
Sometimes toxic thoughts and words fill my heart and spew forth from my lips. Thoughts that linger and take root. Words that cut deep.
I’m too quick to take offense.
I asked him to do this. If he cared about me, he would. He knows it’s important to me. I shouldn’t even have to ask.
I get annoyed.
He’s late for dinner … again. Couldn’t he call? He knows we eat at the same time every night.
I replay the hurt in my mind, and at times it consumes me.
Please know that I share these thoughts as a wife who loves her husband deeply. But I’m also a wife who struggles to live out that love in a God-honoring way.
Maybe you can relate. I wrestle with thinking unkind thoughts about the man I love more than anyone else. And then I remember the truth of God’s Word, and He makes it personal:
Wendy … “whatever is in your heart determines what you say,” Matthew 12:34b (NLT).
Wendy … “give attention to my words; Incline your ear to my sayings. Do not let them depart from your sight; Keep them in the midst of your heart. For they are life to those who find them, And health to all their body. Watch over your heart with all diligence, For from it flow the springs of life,” Proverbs 4:20-23 (NASB).
When I read that warning from Proverbs chapter 4, it signals me to change what fills my heart. It directs me to go to God’s Word and find words of life for my marriage and my husband.
So I’ve committed to pray God’s Word over my husband. Today, I’m sharing what I pray and invite you to join me in praying for your husband:
- Father, give my husband a discerning heart to know Your great love for him and the great plans You have for him and our family. Plans to prosper and not to harm, to give us hope and a future. (Jeremiah 29:11)
- Father, give my husband the mind of Christ, saturate it with godly wisdom. Help him to take every thought captive that is not in obedience to Your Word, and in so doing protect him from pride and temptation. (1 Corinthians 2:16, 2 Corinthians 10:5)
- Father, open the eyes of my husband’s heart to understand Your Word, so that he won’t be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of his mind so that he may know Your good, acceptable and perfect will for his life and our marriage. (Romans 12:2)
- Father, help my husband to trust in You with all his heart, not depending on his own understanding, but acknowledging You in all his ways, so he knows what direction our family should take. (Proverbs 3:5-6)
- Father, may the favor of the Lord rest on my husband. Bless and establish the work of his hands and his heart. (Psalm 90:17)
- Father, help us to live together in perfect unity by loving, honoring and respecting one another and serving each other for Your glory, honor and praise! (1 Thessalonians 5:13)
Friend, when we replace our toxic thoughts with the precious Word of God and then pray those words, we pray the Word that is living and active, capable of changing hearts and minds. We are praying the mind and will of God, as revealed in His Word, into our marriages!
So pray with hope, boldness and confidence! God will be faithful to honor His Word.
Heavenly Father, replace my toxic thoughts with Your life-giving words and teach me to pray those words over my heart, my husband and my marriage. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.